Define Your Destiny, Not your Destruction

Welcome To A Betrayed Heart

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You’re going to love it!

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Been There - Done That. Got The T-Shirt.

Out of my own personal crisis of betrayals, I realized that nothing was available that could help me in the immediate moment of discovery.

I searched everywhere and it was either out of alignment with my beliefs, pushed an agenda or made me the problem. None of them worked.

A Betrayed Heart was created so no one else would ever have to suffer alone.

I help the betrayed and betrayer navigate the shock and pain of betrayal through a unique alternative approach that enables them to find love, compassion and hope for themselves and others in their darkest moments.

first...

An Enabler Is Born

Born in California to two incredibly beautiful and talented parents, I was enveloped in a world where external brilliance masked internal chaos. Despite their gifts, my parents struggled to create a sanctuary of safety or tranquility at home. As a child in an alcoholic home, I quickly learned to become my own anchor, striving early on to heal the emotional turmoil that swirled around me. This dysfunction shaped my enabling tendencies, leading me to marry at just 18. Unprepared for marriage's demands, I ended my marriage a decade later, seeking solace and identity in the world of business. In pursuit of success to fill the void of perceived failure, I found myself remarrying without truly understanding or connecting with my deeper self. This journey, though fraught with challenges, set me on a profound path of self-discovery and spiritual awakening.

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In Love With Love

I had built a life with a man I adored, believing his love was true. When his infidelity came to light, it shattered me. Consumed by rage and anguish, I publicly shamed him, nearly destroying myself in the process. I turned to alcohol and destructive behaviors, lacking the tools to navigate the immense pain. I imploded.

I was determined to find love again and I believed I had found my soulmate. After 25 years of marriage, I was heartbroken to discover his hidden sexual addiction and 18 years of betrayal. Facing this discovery, I embarked on a different journey of profound healing and transformation.

My journey didn't lead to a storybook ending, but to a genuine, enduring rebirth of my inner self. Through this path, I found true strength and a renewed sense of self, emerging stronger and more resilient. Life is more beautiful than I had ever thought possible.

Above all, be the hero or heroine of your life, not the victim

- Nora Ephron

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More Than Brave

My dad always used to ask “Who ever told you life was fair?” when I was upset at an injustice or betrayal in my life and it often angered me. As I pushed through heartache, heartbreak and soul shattering pain I became aware of the truth in his question. Somewhere along the way the “fairy tale narrative” created a sense of entitlement to love without pain.

With great love comes the risk of heartbreak.

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Becoming The Specialist

This awakening ignited a desire to find a better way to navigate the intertwined pain of love and life. Over the past 25+ years, I've immersed myself in the study of human behavior, driven by a need to understand the choices that lead us astray. Through coaching thousands globally for two decades, I've identified recurring patterns of belief, self-deception, and evasion of truth in our relationships and ourselves.

With over 150,000 hours of live coaching and more than 50,000 hours of training and certifications, I began to question conventional responses to betrayal and put personal development theories to the test.

From my own depths of despair, I chose a radically different approach to trauma, leading to the creation of this program—a beacon that has guided my recovery and that of countless others. Society's standard remedies for betrayal are flawed. There is a dignified, sane way to navigate betrayal's pain that doesn't isolate you in suffering. You are not alone, and you do not have to endure this darkness silently.

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When the student is ready, the teacher appears

In my pursuit of healing and understanding, I was called to become a Master Coach. I've had the privilege of coaching with luminaries like Tony Robbins and Brian Buffini, and directing coaching programs in addition to my private practice. Over the years, I've developed new beliefs and innovative healing strategies, continually enriching my skills with healthier coping mechanisms.

My extensive training and certifications have given me profound insights into human development and the healing of heartbreak. Disillusioned by conventional methods in the face of overwhelming pain from betrayal, I sought alternative solutions. In my darkest moments, I vowed to find a better way. This program is not only the blueprint of my own healing journey but has also transformed the lives of countless others.

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From Victim to Victor - the mindset and life of a Queen

Today I live a life of beauty, abundance and gratitude. Self doubt no longer dominates my thoughts. Rage is no longer a part of my psyche. I embrace gratitude for the detour through betrayal and into the power of love and forgiveness. I have proven to myself and to those who have betrayed me that my heart, although shattered, has become stronger and more resilient.

I am now living the life I deserve. I get to shine the light for so many in the trauma of betrayal and to show them the way to the peak of the mountain. You are cordially invited to join us and to be guided to heal, to hope and to love again.

Newly Married, Newly Betrayed

After the shock of my new husband's affair, I was referred to Melissa and with her help I was able to navigate the unchartered waters of betrayal with dignity, hope and a solid plan. She saved me hours of additional heartache and pain. I am grateful for her insight and understanding. I am now happily involved with a great guy and life is better than I ever imagined it could be!

-Julie H

Coach, Speaker, Entrepreneur TX

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